by adminhv | Relationships and Communication
You know the pattern. “If I just send one more email, I’m sure to get their attention.” “My spouse needs reminding … again. On second thought, I’ll just take care of this myself.” “If I can maneuver things so my coworkers’ mistakes are brought to light, the boss will...
by adminhv | Featured, Stress and Anxiety
We’ve all been there. Someone makes a random comment, and it drives you right up the wall. Whenever something impacts us in such a deep way, it’s usually because we have that same belief or fear on some level. And when it gets verbalized, it gets on our very last...
by adminhv | Behavioral Change, Featured
“If your dreams don’t scare you, they’re too small,” says Sir Richard Branson. You may be thinking about a career change. Or whether to stay in a relationship or not. And then there are the smaller, yet emotionally draining, things – whether to speak up about...
by adminhv | Featured, Relationships and Communication
It sounds so simple. Just say what’s on your mind. Then why is it so hard? It may well depend on how you’re “wired” – and whether you’re a bulldozer or a sugarcoater. Some of you are very quick to speak – bulldozing your way through conversations. Others hold way...
by adminhv | Behavioral Change, Featured
Let’s face it. When you set out to make a change in your life, I’ll bet you aim for a higher success rate than ten percent. That’s the thing, though. Lots of times we set ourselves up for failure by trying to make wholesale changes. “If you’re always striving,...